"Everyone of us has a deep desire inside... If we didn't have any desire at all, we wouldn't care about living. We wouldn't have any energy. Everyone has a true and deep desire." - from the book Good Citizens by Thich Nhat Hanh. In my coaching practice, people sometimes come looking for advice and certainty. I can't give that to them. As a certified coach, it's not my role to tell anyone what to do. And nothing is certain anyway. What I can do is help them explore what's real